The Teen Mother star shares whether or not he and Catelynn finally determined to comply with their adoption counselor’s recommendation to cease reaching out, whereas additionally claiming they acquired their adoption file, which he described as “extra surprising than we anticipated.”
Tyler Baltierra is giving an replace to Teen Mother followers relating to his and his spouse Catelynn’s drama with their daughter Carly’s adoptive mother and father.
On Thursday’s episode of Teen Mother: The Subsequent Chapter, Tyler and Catelynn sat down with their adoption counselor Daybreak, to debate the state of affairs, with the couple saying that it is “not honest” how they’re allegedly being handled by daughter Carly’s adoptive mother and father, Brandon and Teresa Davis. The dialog ended with Daybreak finally suggesting Catelynn and Tyler take a “pause” from their makes an attempt to get involved with Carly.
The following day, Tyler shared a press release on his Instagram Tales, through which he opened up concerning the state of affairs. He revealed to followers that he and Catelynn agreed to take Daybreak’s “recommendation,” suggesting they have not tried to contact Carly for the reason that episode was filmed final fall.
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“Adoption Replace: We’ve got taken Dawns recommendation & have since stopped sending items & updates,” he started within the prolonged assertion. “All we will do now’s proceed to share our perspective, expertise & fact as birthparents. All we will do now’s proceed to advocate for the minority group of adoptees.”
Tyler shared that he and Catelynn created an electronic mail account for his or her daughter to allow them to ship messages to her to doubtlessly learn sooner or later.
“We began an electronic mail for Carly & we write to it typically, in order that means when she’s older & if/when she reaches out, we may give her the password for her to learn at her discretion,” he wrote. “We solely need her to have what we imagine she deserves and that is the reality.”
Tyler then stated that he and Catelynn had “simply acquired our entire adoption file” from when Brandon and Tyler adopted Carly, claiming that the “particulars are much more surprising than we anticipated.”
“We solely need what Carly needs, even when meaning her wanting nothing to do with us, which we have said from the start,” he continued.
“Adoption begins with trauma & loss for the child, which is the one one who really issues since they’re essentially the most affected by it,” he added. “So all we will do is proceed to unfold adoption consciousness & that is what we are going to do.”
“I wish to thank the entire help we have acquired from the adoptee neighborhood, your voice issues greater than any & I promise we are going to do every little thing we will to assist elevate that voice!” Tyler concluded.
Brandon and Teresa adopted Carly when she was only a child, as proven on MTV’s 16 and Pregnant. Although they opted for an open adoption and allowed the Baltierras to have contact with Carly through the years, these visits have dramatically diminished lately — in accordance with Catelynn and Tyler.
The couple claimed final season that Brandon and Teresa had stopped speaking with them through textual content after they allegedly refused to allow them to see their daughter on her fifteenth birthday.
Thursday’s episode confirmed the fallout from Catelynn venting on social media about allegedly being left on learn by the Davises, with Cate sharing that Teresa supposedly texted her, “The best way that you simply discuss us on-line was very hurtful, so we’re not going to be responding.”
Whereas this episode was filmed months in the past, Catelynn advised TooFab forward of the season premiere that they continue to be “blocked.”
“There hasn’t been any enchancment. We’re nonetheless blocked. I nonetheless haven’t any means of speaking with them, even when I wished to. So no, it is nonetheless the identical,” she stated.
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The 32-year-old admitted that it has been “actually laborious” not to have the ability to converse to their daughter, sharing that it is “undoubtedly introduced up a whole lot of PTSD” for her and Tyler.
Catelynn and Tyler acquired some criticism from followers after they took to social media in actual time to share their frustrations with Brandon and Teresa whereas final season was airing. Regardless of this, Catelynn stated she believes being on the MTV actuality present hasn’t harm the state of affairs, however reasonably held Carly’s adoptive mother and father “accountable.”
“Actually, a part of me says that I feel that if we weren’t on the present, I feel they might’ve lower off contact a very long time in the past,” she advised TooFab. “I feel the present has sort of perhaps needed to maintain them somewhat bit accountable for what they promised.”
“I actually imagine that,” she continued. “I imply, often, when a delivery mum or dad decides on an open adoption, most open adoptions shut throughout the first 5 years, and that is not as a result of the delivery mother and father need it to occur, it is as a result of the adoptive mother and father simply do it. So I do suppose, you recognize, it’s perhaps, I feel that they might’ve lower it off a very long time in the past, actually, and never for Carly’s sake, I feel for their very own, however that is simply my private opinion.”
Teen Mother: The Subsequent Chapter airs Thursdays on MTV.
