“A very long time in the past, you talked about you’d by no means shaved or waxed your bikini line,” wrote a reader named Emma. “May you elaborate on why? I’ve at all times puzzled!” Properly, I’m completely happy to share…
My reply is actually easy: I’ve delicate pores and skin, and I’m a wuss, haha. I don’t need to go right into a waxing place and get my hair ripped out; it sounds so painful, omg. Plus, I really feel positive having hair there, and my feeling is that if I’m going to mattress with somebody, I would like us each to really feel so excited and heat and completely happy and shut that we’re positive with regardless of the actual hair state of affairs is on both of our our bodies. One caveat: I don’t have a whole lot of hair, and I feel my reply may be completely different if I had extra rising outdoors my swimsuit space.
Additionally, after I was getting again onto the relationship scene, my sister really useful this bikini trimmer. I attempted it and preferred it, and now I take advantage of it each time I’m within the temper — most likely each couple months — to have much less hair, while not having to totally shave or wax. It’s fully painless and sort of enjoyable to mess around with.
Ideas? So curious to listen to what you do and the way you’re feeling about it! Each physique is completely different, and other people have all kinds of preferences and experiences. As with all physique/intercourse/parenting/relationships/life questions, “Good for her, not for me.” xoxo
P.S. Twist: I just like the phrase “moist”, and did you’ve got intercourse in your wedding ceremony evening? Additionally, 5 methods to speak to children about consent, and why I recurrently speak about intervals with my sons.
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